The Playbook · Amanda Carroll
Personal coaching · Welcome to The Playbook

Hope isn't a
dating strategy.
A Playbook is.

Let's build yours together — and run it until you're in the relationship you want.

No shrinkingNo chasingNo "let's see where this goes"Yes, dating gets fun again

Run The Playbook with me. If you're not in a committed relationship in five dates or fewer, I stay on your sideline — free — until you are.

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300+Women on the roster
50K+Podcast downloads
The scouting report

You built a career you're proud of. So why is this the one thing you're guessing at?

If you've ever asked yourself, quietly, why haven't I figured out love? — you're in the right huddle. Every woman I coach has a plan for her money, her team, her calendar. Then she opens Hinge and runs the most important decision of her life on instinct. Not because she's bad at this. Because nobody ever handed her the plays.

Eight months in a talking stage that never turned into an actual Tuesday — and you still can't say exactly what he is to you. Coach's note: that's not a relationship, that's a group chat.
"You're intimidating" — said by a man who made two plans in six months. You weren't trying to be intimidating. You were being responsible.
The math you do in the car and never say out loud. If you want children, this is the only line on your list with a date attached.
Dating apps that feel like a second job — more effort every month, the same outcome, and no way to tell which play is broken.
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The Playbook
7 plays. Here are 5.
Inside The Playbook

You were taught how to be chosen. Now you call the plays.

The Playbook is a seven-step strategy — the same one I ran to find my husband and have taught to 300+ women since. It doesn't change who you are. It puts you in charge of the game. Here's a look at five of the seven plays. The last two? You get those on the field.

This is the fun part. Promise.

Play 1

The Magnetic Profile

We redesign your dating profile so it stops attracting men who waste your time and starts attracting the ones you'd actually choose.

Play 2

You Do the Choosing

You stop waiting to be picked on the apps. You learn to run them like the one with the clipboard — deciding who gets a first date, and why. Swiping stops feeling like a chore here.

Play 3

The 4 Keys

A vetting system built on the 4 Keys to a Healthy Partner — and the four questions that reveal them before you're emotionally invested.

Play 4

Drive the Play

You stop waiting for him to move things forward. You learn how to advance from match to date to relationship without chasing, guessing, or shrinking.

Play 5

Get the Commitment

How to date with a destination, recognize the man who's equipped to build a life beside you, and get to committed — in five dates, not five months.

Plays 6 & 7

Coach's eyes only.

The two plays that turn a good relationship into the one you keep. Classified until you're on the roster — and worth the wait.

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Why there's no matchmaker on this roster

This isn't matchmaking. You call the plays.

Matchmakers charge $10,000–$50,000 to send you a handful of pre-selected men. Less than 1% of those matches lead to lasting relationships.

Hope & luck
0
vs
Women with a Playbook
300+
final score · and counting

Matchmaking — someone else calls the plays

  • $10,000–$50,000
  • A handful of pre-selected men
  • Under 1% lead to lasting relationships
  • They choose for you

The Playbook — you call them

  • A fraction of the cost
  • You become the expert chooser
  • Runs on every app, in real life, in your network
  • 300+ women taught to choose well
  • Skills you keep forever
  • Coach-free within 90 days
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The highlight reel

Proof it works — for women like you.

Women with a plan for everything else, who learned to choose well.

Kendra
Season MVP · met him on date four

Kendra

Data analyst, 41

"I was scared to death of dating apps! I thought I'd have to go on 100 dates to find the right one. With Amanda's strategy, I met him on the FOURTH DATE! Within 90 days of coaching, I was in a committed relationship."

Tatyana
Game-winning drive · married in 6 months

Tatyana

Divorced, two kids

"I was unsure if dating after divorce was possible. I was convinced staying single until my kids were grown was my only option — until I found Amanda. Now I'm remarried to a man who is ALL IN with me and my kids."

Megan
Championship season · married in a year

Megan

Two daughters

"After my divorce, I lost faith that love was possible. I found The Playbook system — and the man who chose me and my daughters completely."

"Amanda's strategy is ON POINT to help you create the exact relationship you desire. In just 5 weeks I met the man that has everything I wanted — and even brings the icing-on-the-cake traits I was looking for."— Reenee, Toronto, Canada
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Amanda Carroll coaching a huddle
calling the plays
Meet your coach

Meet Amanda.

Divorced at 35, with a nationally syndicated radio show, three kids under five, and no idea how to date. I did what everyone says — the books, the apps, "be more open, expect a little less" — and it quietly convinced me the problem was me.

It wasn't. I had a plan for my show, my money, my kids' schedule to the half hour. I'd never built one for this. So I did — and I married my biggest cheerleader. Then I taught the same plays to 300+ women. It wasn't a fluke.

  • Dating strategist · certified dating coach & trauma-informed counselor
  • Host, The High Value Woman's Playbook — 50K+ downloads
  • 300+ women taught to choose well — 0 guarantee claims ever used
  • 20 years on national radio — I know what people want and why they hold back
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The coach's guarantee

My Promise To You.

If you run The Playbook and you are not in a committed relationship in five dates or fewer — I keep coaching you, free, until you find him.

No risk · No time limit · No fine print · 300+ women taught

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Amanda Carroll on the sideline
see you on the field
Ready to run it?

You've done harder things than this. Suit up.

You got a trainer for your body, an advisor for your money, a mentor for your career. Dating is the last area you've been running alone — and wanting a coach for it isn't a weakness. It's what a woman who takes her life seriously does.

I keep the roster small so every woman on it gets my personal attention. If you're done dating at random and ready to run a plan — this call is the first step. Sixty minutes with me, and you'll leave knowing exactly which play is broken. If you're ready, here's the next step.

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